I’ll let you into a little secret of mine, which is this: I’m the sort of dude that gets wrung out about emotional scenes in books and movies and TV. I date this tendency back to a specific event, which was the birth of my daughter. Before then, I could read or watch a scene of complete heartbreak and go “eh”; after her birth, I get choked up watching very special episodes of SpongeBob SquarePants. I hate it, man. Among the reasons I hate it is that when I go out in public to do a reading, there are entire books of mine that I can’t read aloud, because I can’t get through them without sobbing. And, you know, look: When you can't get through something you’ve read a hundred times because you actually wrote it without turning into a blubbering fool, there’s something wrong with you.
That said, I’ve often wondered if one entertainment medium is better at wrenching emotions out of people than others. Apparently so had scientists Mbemba Jabbi, Jojanneke Bastiaansen and Christian Keysers, so they set out to discover whether visual and written mediums had any difference in how they were able to evoke emotional responses (specifically, the emotion of disgust).
Their results, published in a paper with sales-grabbing title “A Common Anterior Insula Representation of Disgust Observation, Experience and Imagination Shows Divergent Functional Connectivity Pathways,” show that both affect us powerfully, because both written and visual representations affect the same parts of the brain:
“We placed our participants in an fMRI scanner to measure their brain activity while we first showed our subject short 3s movie clips of an actor sipping from a cup and then looking disgusted,” said Christian Keysers. “Later on, we asked them to read and imagine short emotional scenarios; for instance, walking along a street, bumping into a reeking, drunken man, who then starts to retch, and realizing that some of his vomit had ended up in your own mouth. Finally, we measured their brain activity while the participants tasted unpleasant solutions in the scanner.”
“Our striking result,” said Keysers, “is that in all three cases, the same location of the anterior insula lit up. The anterior insula is the part of the brain that is the heart of our feeling of disgust...What this means is that whether we see a movie or read a story, the same thing happens: we activate our bodily representations of what it feels like to be disgusted—and that is why reading a book and viewing a movie can both make us feel as if we literally feel what the protagonist is going through.”
In a way, this is a relief for me. Although I am a writer, some part of my brain felt like I should be able to hold myself together a little better reading a book than watching a movie (particularly, you know, if it’s my book). Now that I know it’s all working on the same part of the brain, I’ll feel more free to blubber with abandon. I mean, even more than I already do. And in a writerly sense, it’s good to know that my favorite medium doesn’t suffer any disadvantage when it comes to visceral impact. Because, you know. It’s not enough that I blubber uncontrollably when I read my work. I really want to make you blubber uncontrollably, too. I think some of you may have already figured out that part.
Thursday August 21, 2008 04:54pm EDT
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Thursday August 21, 2008 11:26pm EDT
Oh, yeah, and Sandikal is right about HOW THE GRINCH STOLE CHRISTMAS. Curse you, Dr. Seuss.
And Jonathan Coulton's song "Space Doggity" about Laika gets to me too. I try not to listen to it when other people are around to spare them my weepiness.
But does this problem go away when the kids are off to college?
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Friday August 22, 2008 01:27am EDT
I'm sorry, but there's just too much bad neuroimaging going around, and the news reporting is only worse. The fact that our *experiences* of this emotion are similar across these different types of stimuli practically guarantees that some portion of the brain or other will be active during all three kinds of events. About the only thing going for this paper, after a quick scan of the abstract and results, is the fact that they predicted insula activation, and even that is not particularly surprising.
Actually, the more interesting part to me is the functional connectivity analysis, which shows how wider brain networks operate on different kinds of experiences of disgust. Turns out that observation involves less of a broad, multimodal network than either experience or imagination. Your stories probably make us feel *more* emotion than merely watching some stranger go through the same thing!
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Friday August 22, 2008 10:16am EDT
I made the mistake of reading my kids "Charlotte's Web." When I got to the part where Charlotte dies alone in the empty fairgrounds, I just lost it. Tears running down my face as I tried to hang in there and finish it for them. My four-year-old (I am not kidding here) reached over and touched my arm and said, "It's okay, Mom, it's just a story."
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Is one medium better than others for being able to do this? I don't really think so. Regardless of the medium, such touchstones are achieved via the story, and that story must find the universal truths that all humans experience. Clearly, this can also be overdone, become a maudlin tear-jerker via manipulation rather than genuine feelings prompted by real images, but these are fairly easily recognizable, and don't subtract from the truly great work's ability to communicate with our inner spirit.
VIEW ALL BY · Friday August 22, 2008 12:04pm EDT
I surprised myself the other day by choking up while watching that scene in _Breaking Away_ where Barbara Barrie shows Dennis Christopher her "secret" passport. I still can't pinpoint what it was about that "chase your dream" moment that got to me.
I'm telling myself the seals on the waterworks just degrade over time.
Friday August 22, 2008 01:07pm EDT
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This doesn't happen in every film or even close to every film, thank goodness, or I'd be a lot more bitter than I already am.
It also doesn't happen with TV shows or with books. I rarely see the strings when I'm immersed in reading--even though I sometimes help put the strings in there in the first place!
VIEW ALL BY · Friday August 22, 2008 01:30pm EDT
So, for books that choked me up:
"Little Brother" by Cory Doctorow had me crying and holding my breath. I have a young teen son and I was an idealistic teen myself and my daughter had just graduated high school when 9/11 happened. It got me on too many levels.
My heart stood still at the climactic scene in "Beloved" by Toni Morrison
"The Geography of Love" by Glenda Burgess made me cry because it was a memoir of a woman who was about my age when she lost her husband to cancer. They were married about the same length of time as my husband and I have been. Talk about hitting close to home!
The relationship between Sol and his daughter Rachel in "Hyperion" by Dan Simmons was another tear-jerker.
VIEW ALL BY · Friday August 22, 2008 02:46pm EDT
Yes, Sol and Rachel! Brr.
It isn't often that I do get the teary eyes, especially on TV where I can see the manipulation with no problem at all.
But books? It seems to happen all the bloody time.
A tiny bit ago, Sansa's reaction in A Game of Thrones to you-know-what-if-you-read-it did that, even though I had been quite spoiled. The rarity of /that/ surprised me.
I needed a break after that and grabbed Revelation Space. Much more pleasant to read about Triumvir Volyova, really. ;)
VIEW ALL BY · Friday August 22, 2008 03:33pm EDT
I'm not a parent myself, but judging by the responses here, a certain capability for, or drive toward, sentimentality seems to kick in with parenthood.
I can see how this would happen for a woman, what with pregnancy-hormones an' all, but how to measure when sentimentality hits Daddy?
Is there a sort of chemical reaction that sparks the "Daddy-brain"?
VIEW ALL BY · Friday August 22, 2008 06:19pm EDT
While I can happily (well, not happily) sit through Hostel, throw a chick flick my way and I'll excuse myself 'to go to the bathroom' right around the point where the plucky male lead is making a fool of himself over a misunderstanding. If it happens in a book, I'll read a little faster and try and skim over the details.
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blub blub blub :)
VIEW ALL BY · Saturday August 23, 2008 10:00am EDT
The touch.
The feel.
The fabric of our lives.
...and the tissues start flying out of the box like a flock of released doves.
What I find interesting is that most humans -- at least the ones posting here -- seem to require children, and/or half a lifetime, to start becoming vulnerable to pathos, even when it's cloying or manipulative. Jeez, I guess I'd become a shaking, perspiring blob of sentiment were I ever to spawn.
VIEW ALL BY · Saturday August 23, 2008 06:20pm EDT
I sometimes tear up writing a scene as well, and I knew I was on my way when I got an email about a short story I posted online that made the reader (a man who said he didn't tear up easily) cry. If I can do that, I'm doing something right.
Monday August 25, 2008 04:59pm EDT
How can you not get hit right in the water works by those girls, I love them to pieces...
Tuesday August 26, 2008 10:52am EDT
I always thought this was the case for me because we lost the first kids we had (twins, pregnancy ended too early ...). But apparently spawning successfully on the first try will do it too. That's a bit of a comfort .. seeing as how I can't get through any TV-show without getting all misty-eyed nowadays *sigh*
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Heh. I thought it was just me.
Weird that "watching" (on TV, in a book, or similar) character humiliate him/herself can almost be physically painful.
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